If there's one thing that I've learned from all of this its:
in taking the next step in a relationship, it is important that the guy feels that he is ready to be married. The girl can gently steer the relationship towards that direction but the idea, the decision, should come from the guy first. Because i think that its okei if a woman is not ready, she'll have her husband to depend on anyway. but if the guy is not ready, most probably there will be some lying, and cheating, and regretting, and the whole vicious cycle will repeat itself until he's really really ready.
and owh, do not submit to peer pressure.
so to you out there, mr-i-don't-mind-making-my-wife-milo -at-3oclock-in-the-morning a.k.a mr-i-think-its-cute-that-my-wife-likes-to-whine-when-life-doesn't-go-her-way a.k.a mr-i- like -it- when- my- wife-turns-into-a-giant-attention-seeker-when-she's-sick,
i'm ready when u are :)
