What Do You Get When You Fall In Love?

friends of ours ended their relationship recently.

they've been together for 3 years.

breaking up is really a very very sad thing. it doesnt matter if the guy or girl is bad, or that either one of them deserves it, i believe the pain is just the same, it cuts both ways.

but this friend of ours, they had the most beautiful loving romantic relationship ever. you can practically see birds singing over their heads when they're together. the kind that is not annoying (u know how some couples just makes u wanna barf, or yell "get a room!", or just pour boiling water over them:-") this couple is different. you should have seen the way the guy used to look at the girl sincerely. his eyes just sparkle, its like he couldnt believe it that this eyes that he's gazing into is looking straight back at him, full of love. It just makes u wish that someday you would be lucky enough to find a guy who would look at u the same way.

So anyway, we all thought that nothing could tear them both apart, not even if Godzilla storms in and eat the whole city. but sadly, they too, like other couples i have come to know, came to the end of their road. this bothers me because, i keep thinking if this 2 angelic people couldnt make it, who can? how am i supposed to believe in love like this? *dramaqueenmoment*

which reminds me of something Shawn said in one of the episode of Boy Meets World, when his bestfriend, Cory broke up with Topanga.(Cory and Topanga is the sweetest highschool sweethearts btw). Cory asked Shawn why is he more devastated then him over the break up, and Shawn said,

" Because, I want to have what you have with Topanga. How can I have what u have when you don't have it anymore! I want u to still have it."

so you see, i just hope that this is not the end of the road for them. lets just hope that its just a detour. and somehow someday, their paths will cross again, and they'll be together forever:)

anyway, what i'm trying to say is, falling in love is a splendid thing, but the possibility of falling out of it, scares the hell out of me.